Negotiating Safer Sex
Sexual activity can be a fun and connecting experience for partners, but participants must recognize that oral, vaginal and anal sex are behaviors that do come with inherent risks. The most effective away to avoid the risks of contracting an STI/STD or having an unplanned pregnancy is to use contraceptives. Despite their proven effectiveness, contraceptives are not always a priority for individuals engaging in sexual activity. This can pose a problem for partners or potential partners who have health and pregnancy concerns.
The best way to resolve these problems is to communicate your concerns with your partner. This can be a difficult task because many individuals may not want to start an awkward conversation or are afraid that they may be offending their partner. Although, the subject of safe sex may not lead to a preferable conversation, it is important that you reveal your personal values and concerns. In many cases, your partner was having the same worries as you and will be relieved that you brought up the topic before intimacy occurs. Remember that bringing up safe sex demonstrates that your partner and yourself. Even though the topic of contraceptive use is usually welcomed, there are some instances in which a partner may try to argue or find an excuse that goes against your desire for safer sex. The following is a list of misleading responses that you should be prepared for.
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