From:    Female, age unknown

Subject:    premature ejaculation

    Thank you so much for your section on premature ejaculation. I am currently in a relationship that was changed for the better by the information. When we began dating, my partner and I aleways had fast sex, due to my parents being home, roommates, being outside, etc. Recently we've been able to have sex in greater privacy, but he still came fast. At first I thought he was being selfish, but after reading your section on premature ejaculation, I realized that his tendency to come to early was probably due to a learned habit. We talked and began using the start-stop method. Our enjoyment is already increasing and I know it will only get better.