Why She Stays
Why She Stays
One of the most common questions that people ask themselves when they hear about an abusive relationship is �Why does she stay?� The very reasons that she stays are the reasons that make domestic and dating violence so complicated. The violence is not an isolated incident with a stranger whom you loathe. Instead, it is a hurtful act by someone that you care very much about. There are emotional feelings and personal property all wrapped up in the situation, too. Fear plays a big role. Since the perpetrator is an intimate friend, he most likely knows your friends and family, and he can find you if you leave. These are only a few reasons why some women stay. Here are several others.
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Societal
acceptance of violence
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Love
for spouse
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Lack
of resources
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Lack
of financial stability
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No
place to go
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Religious
views that you cannot leave a relationship
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Children
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Fear
for safety of oneself and children
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Fear
of death if she leaves
Sadly enough, these fears are so devastating that they can force a woman to remain in a relationship that is physically and emotionally traumatizing. If you or someone you know is being abused, they should seek help immediately. There are people who can help to protect them and their loved ones. Refer to the important numbers on this site to find help in your local area.