“Deep-throating” is a sexual technique that requires you to suppress your gag reflex in order to partially swallow the entire length of the penis. Deep-throating, which is considered a skill by many individuals, requires muscle control and a willing nature. If you have never tried this technique, or if you have and found that you have a sensitive gag reflex (feeling like you are going to vomit), then we would definitely suggest you practice on toys, bananas or other objects BEFORE you try this on your partner. If you become confident with practice, you will do much better accommodating a real penis. Many individuals have successfully learned to deep-throat or improved oral sex skills by practicing on bananas. Bananas are curved, rather long and about the same width as many penises. Avoid ramming the object down your throat, for you may regurgitate your previous meal.
Fruits are great practice. Many individuals have successfully learned to deep throat, or even give better oral sex, on bananas. Bananas are curved, rather long and about the same width as many penises. Do not attempt to just ram the object down your throat, for you may regurgitate your previous meal. We recommend you be as comfortable as possible and try to be aroused because the more aroused you are, the better the practice will be.
When you feel ready to begin, start as you would with regular oral sex. Lick the head of the penis and down the shaft to get it moist with saliva. You can also include some flavored lubricant. Use your hands to hold the penis at the base and give it your full attention. Slowly and carefully slide the head and shaft of the penis down your throat, as far down as you feel comfortable with. You can practice each day by working your way down inch by inch until you can fit the entire penis down your throat. Keep trying and you will succeed. Make sure to communicate with your partner to let them know not to force or thrust while you are preforming this act.
While deep throating is reported as being one of the most intense sensations for an individual, please do not worry if you cannot do it despite trying and employing different techniques. Your partner will surely love and appreciate your efforts.
This picture displays a woman performing head-back deep throat. This technique is an alternative to a partner kneeling. This gives more dominance to one partner, who controls the depth of penetration. Communication is very important in this position before it takes place, so boundaries are not transcended by mistake.
Last updated: 1 March 2013